Why women cheat in relationships and…why they have the right to do so


By Olapeju Agunbiade

Years ago a woman cheating on her spouse was unheard of but in modern times the number of women who cheat on their spouse is growing exponentially. The differences in men and women cheating is that men often cheat for physical reasons while

Women often have emotional reasons for cheating on their partner. The reasons why women cheat include loneliness, revenge, boredom and self esteem. These factors may be inexcusable but they do exist in the minds of a cheating woman. More and more women are becoming guilty of cheating on their partners and it is often emotional reasons rather than lust that drive them to these affairs

Loneliness is one of the primary reasons that women seek out affairs and cheat on their partner. Although it sounds contradictory that they should feel lonely because the women are currently in a relationship, it is often a relationship that is not emotionally fulfilling.

Women involved in these unsatisfactory relationships may feel as lonely if not more so than women who are not in a relationship.

If a woman is not receiving the attention she feels she deserves in a relationship, she may be tempted to seek that attention elsewhere and become involved in an affair.

A partner who becomes overly involved with his work or a hobby may not make time to spend with his partner and this often results in the women feeling as if they are all alone.

This feeling of loneliness can drive a woman to cheat on her partner.

One of the most prevalent reasons why women cheat is that they feel as though their current partner is not lavishing much attention on them and they feel lonely even in his presence.

Revenge has also become and increasing factor in why women cheat. The modern woman is no longer willing to sit back and accept the fact that their partner may cheat on them.

If a woman confirms or even just holds a suspicion that their partner is cheating on them, they may be driven to engage in an affair of their own as an act of revenge. The theory of, “An eye for an eye,” has unfortunately trickled down into the realm of romantic relationships and many women see a cheating partner as a justification to have an affair of their own.

They believe that they are justified in having an affair if they catch their partner cheating on them. Furthermore they may be extremely hurt by their partner’s actions and seek a way to hurt them in the same way. While it is not a justifiable reason, many women see revenge as an appropriate reason for cheating on their spouse.

Boredom may also factor into why women cheat. Their current relationship may have fallen into a rut and lost the excitement that it possessed in the early stages of its existence.

They may feel that their relationship has become dull and predictable and rather than trying to bring excitement into their current relationship they may pursue affairs in the hopes of achieving the excitement they felt when they first became involved with their partner.

While an affair may bring about a temporary solution of making the woman feel excited about love again it may ultimately destroy both their current relationship as well as their cheating relationship.

An affair is exciting not only because it involves a relationship with a new person but also because it involves sneaking around and ultimately getting away with doing something wrong. To many women this is very exciting and they are willing to risk losing their relationship over their affair. Many women cheat because they are bored with the monotony of their current relationship and they seek to bring excitement back into their life through engaging in an affair.

Another reason why women cheat is a lack of self esteem. Women may feel that they are not getting an adequate amount of admiration from their partner and they may be tempted to cheat to affirm that they are still attractive and desirable. When a relationship meets a stagnant point where the partners are no longer making a conscious effort to reassure each other that they are still desirable, many women begin to feel insecure. This insecurity leads women to seek affirmation of their desirability outside of the relationship in the form of an affair. Being found desirable by another compensates for the lack of longing they feel from their partner and helps to boost their self esteem. While women with a healthy self esteem are more apt to remain happy in a relationship, those that lack self esteem are often driven to cheat on their partners. Men are not the only ones who cheat on their partners. It is becoming more and more common for women to be guilty of cheating. While women are beginning to cheat as often as men the reasons why women cheat are much different than the reasons why men cheat. The reasons for women cheating are tied tightly to emotional reasons such as loneliness, revenge and boredom.

by KissMeGoodnight.com

Marriage cheating: Would you recognize them  if they were staring you in the face?

From Alex Saunders

Infidelity does not happen overnight. In fact, most of the time there are plenty of warning signs that signify the unhappiness of a person in a relationship. These unmet needs are what will eventually cause a person to cheat. In marriage, cheating signs can be varied often because there are so many shared responsibilities that the cheating partner doesn’t really want out; he or she just wants to feel something exciting again.

In the beginning, the marriage cheating signs that you may notice will involve perhaps drastic changes in your spouse’s behavior. They may begin to pick fights and leave suddenly afterwards. Is there a pattern to when these fights are picked? The partner that is cheating may come up with wild excuses out of the blue to join a bowling team or sports league for some ‘alone time’ or they may join a gym. Essentially, they will behave as though they need some alone time, when the reality is that they are just using this as an excuse to get away. Rather than engage in an argument, allow them to go and then drive by to see if they are really where they say they are.

Another marriage cheating signs can be found in cell phone and computer usage. Call your cell company and obtain a complete statement that will show all the phone numbers called, duration of the calls and time of the calls. You may notice a particular number that keeps showing up around your partners lunch time. Have you also noticed that they are often “unreachable” during business lunch hours? There are hundreds of telltale signs of infidelity and ALL of them are finally located in one place. Check out and get “How to Detect Infidelity” guide and you will be amazed at just how much information is right in front of you.

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While some of the signs are outward other marriage cheating signs could be a little harder to find. You may need to check the mileage of their car to see if they are doing what they say they are. Another trick that often works requires setting the stage for infidelity to occur. For instance, pretend to schedule an out of town trip and see what happens when he or she thinks you are gone.

If your spouse spends a lot of time at work and is having an affair on the job, the marriage cheating signs may be that he or she tries to keep you out of the office as much as possible. Are overtime and “hours spent at work” coinciding with each other?

The bottom line is that if you suspect your spouse is cheating, there is a good chance you are right. You deserve to know the truth. No affair occurs without leaving signals to the spouse being cheated on. Sometimes, it may take bravery and courage to get you to do a little investigating of your own but in the end, it is well worth it. Nobody deserves to live a life with someone that is based on lies and deception.

It is your right to know! Millions of spouses are in the same shoes as you and many of them are finding what they need to know so they can CATCH their spouse! Catching your spouse and having hard-core evidence is the only way you will ever know for sure what he or she is doing. Keep in mind, that no matter how much prodding you do ~ they will never divulge everything. You must find out for your self.